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Virtual Sex Part 2: Doing It

In Virtual Sex Part 1 [Link] we covered some of the Whats and Whys of Virtual Sex, along with some of the legal and privacy issues that come up. In Part 2 of our Virtual Sex series, we’re going to go over a bit more of the Hows of virtual sex, including some tips and ideas for making it as sexy, safe, and fun as possible!

How do people have Virtual Sex?

Consent and Communication

When and Where

Foreplay

Stereotypically, people think that foreplay is only necessary to prepare people for penetrative sex. Not true! Foreplay is for getting people in the mood for any kind of sexual activity, including virtual sex. Here are some things to consider:

Props and Technology

As we mentioned above, it’s worth considering what technology you’re using. Here are some more things to think about.

For more info on virtual sex and sexting, check out these articles:

Oh, and here are some suggested emojis that you can use for sexting. Feel free to get creative and use whatever emojis or gifs work for you!

Sexy Emoji Grid 3

If you have questions about this topic, feel free to contact one of our peer educators. [Link]

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