There’s no wrong way to be queer, even if it feels like we’re told there is. This article talks about where that idea comes from, and how to deal with feeling like you’re “not queer enough.”
Regular testing for STIs is important so that you can treat and manage any potential STIs as early as possible. If you’re looking for an option that is convenient and discrete, you may want to consider at-home STI testing.
Bleeding during sex is not something to ignore–this post talks about why it might be happening and what you can do to prevent it!